Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 3:47 pm Post subject: Men dat don't take care of they kids
On 11/15.2006, my daddy will have been dead 2 yrs. He was in and out of my life(mostly out) and i didn't talk to him for 6 yrs before he passed. I grew up thinkin' sumthin' was wrong wit me cause my daddy didn't want me. So all those men that be havin all these damn kids wit different women need to realize that what they do affect they child. Dudes need to step up to the plate if they man enough to make a baby and do right by they child. I caint understand how someone can just go thru life and not wonder if they kid is okay, do they got food, do they got shelter, are they treated okay where they at...it just blows my mind. I would neva want one of my kids to go thru the pain I went thru. That's why even tho I HATE my girls' dad, I would neva keep them from him cause they love him and he wants to be in they life......now that's love. _________________ in ya damn face
Now dats some real talk. My dad wuz NEVA there for me. It wuz alwayz jus me and my momz. We had some hard times or wutever u kno. We stuggled when I wuz younger. Dats why I hate when ppl look at me and go "Look at thiz lil cute rich bitch." I be sayin u jus don kno. I grew up witout a dad, my mama had to raise me alone. She remarried now, and he's a Lawyer. He lyk tha daddy I neva had. But I say if u bout to make a babii, then be a man about it and take care of them. Babies aint no one drop stop thing. And if u don want dat responsibility then there's things called birth control, condoms, and straight up NO SEX!!! Some men go stick they shit everywhere and then 9 months lata be lyk "It aint mine" whiles they stickin some otha chiq. And R.I.P to ur dad. _________________ <p aling="center">
Mi amor;
I luhv me some Tremaine
Get over him??
Ha!
Neverson</p>
Well wen I was 12 my dad walked out on us, FOR 12 GOT DAMN YEARS DAT MUTHAFUCKA WAS DUR, AND NOW HE AINT HUR NO MORE!!!! I GREW ATTACHED TO HIM, I LUVED THAT MAN WITH ALL MY HEART, TO THIS DAY I DONT KNOW WHY HE LEFT, I'M PISSED THE FUCK OFF AT HIM!!!!!!! TO THIS VERY MUTHAFUCKIN' DAY I ASK MYSELF...."WHY DID HE LEAVE, WHY THE FUCK DID HE LEAVE"!!!!!!! MY BABY'S FATHER IS GON SUM WUR I DONT KNOW WUR THE FUCK HE AT, I TRIED GETTIN IN CONTACT WIT HIM BUT HE JUS KEEP RUNNIN OFF , BUT THE GUY I'M WIT NOW IS MY BABY'S DADDY, AND THURS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEIN A DADDY AND FATHER, AND MY BOYFRIEND IS MY BABY'S DADDY MY BABY WILL BE A YEAR OLD ON THE 12TH AND MY BOYFRIEND WAS THUR DURIN' THE PREGNACY, HE WAS THUR IN THE HOSPITAL, HE SIGN THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE, HE WAS THUR WEN MY BABY WAS SICK, HE THE ONE MY BABY CALL "DA DA", HE WAS THUR WEN MY BABY TOOK HIS FIRST STEPS, AND HE STILL HUR TO THIS VERY MOMENT IN THUR SLEEP WIT MY BABY IN HIS ARMS, RIGHT NOW FUCK MY BABY'S FATHER, FUCK HIM, FUCK HIM, FUCK HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAANNNNNNddddd I'm calm!!! So? _________________ SeXy bRoWn eYeZ wIt cHoCoLaTe tHiCk tHiGhZ
Thanxs grrls...i wuz havin' a moment. Itz always hard on me this time of the year. If ya get a chance, read my newest blog on myspace....itz sum real shit!! And Shay, I know itz hard for u cause u had your dad in your life alot longer than i eva did. Thas messed up. And, well, Shayla u pretty much in da same place i am so it helps when people kno where u comin from...means alot! _________________ in ya damn face
Thanxs grrls...i wuz havin' a moment. Itz always hard on me this time of the year. If ya get a chance, read my newest blog on myspace....itz sum real S*#t!! And Shay, I know itz hard for u cause u had your dad in your life alot longer than i eva did. Thas messed up. And, well, Shayla u pretty much in da same place i am so it helps when people kno where u comin from...means alot!
Yea, chiqa. U already kno. _________________ <p aling="center">
Mi amor;
I luhv me some Tremaine
Get over him??
Ha!
Neverson</p>
y'all is some strong women.
i can't relate because my father has alwayz been there for me.
shit. i live with both my mom and my dad. they been together for 20 yrs. and married for 18.
but i have alotta respect for y'all because i can only imagine all tha hardships and insecurities that y'all had to deal with comin' up!
im really glad that y'all ain't turn out as bad as these gurls around my way who ain't grow up with a dad! _________________
Thanks Philly gurl. And I'm glad ur parents are together. I say it's my daddy loss because he has a fine, sexii, smart, intellegent, beautiful, talented daughter out there and he doesn't kno it. In fact, I'm glad my mama aint wit him. My step-daddy iz lyk my real daddy. If it wuzn't for him we'd be no where. If my real daddy had stayed around we'd probably be livin on tha d-block. _________________ <p aling="center">
Mi amor;
I luhv me some Tremaine
Get over him??
Ha!
Neverson</p>
U lucky Philly...sounds like u got great parents. I ain't gonna lie, i wuz a bad ass teen....alwayz in trouble. But I got pregnant, and it made me straighten my ass up fast. I didn't want my kid to ever feel like her mom ain't love her. And Vida, ya real dad fucked up cause he missed out on a great grrl!!! _________________ in ya damn face
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And R.I.P to ur dad.
, BUT THE GUY I'M WIT NOW IS MY BABY'S DADDY, AND THURS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEIN A DADDY AND FATHER, AND MY BOYFRIEND IS MY BABY'S DADDY MY BABY WILL BE A YEAR OLD ON THE 12TH AND MY BOYFRIEND WAS THUR DURIN' THE PREGNACY, HE WAS THUR IN THE HOSPITAL, HE SIGN THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE, HE WAS THUR WEN MY BABY WAS SICK, HE THE ONE MY BABY CALL "DA DA", HE WAS THUR WEN MY BABY TOOK HIS FIRST STEPS, AND HE STILL HUR TO THIS VERY MOMENT IN THUR SLEEP WIT MY BABY IN HIS ARMS, RIGHT NOW 
So? 
